took liam to the halifax gala yesterday. got to admit we needed a good day out after the crap time i have been having lately.
i know this is gonna be a short blog but i just wanted to say to the people who have been reading about the blogs about my son and his learning probs for some years and the fights i have had to do with everyone….school have put in for a EHC (education, health and care report). we just need to wait now to see what comes back but i do hope we get the care he needs and maybe i might be able to get him into a special needs school.
so proud of my boy for helping to make this.
i made my mind up yesterday that my goal for this year is to join a gym and to start feeling good about myself.
every year i make this goal and never do it and that’s because life is crazy or thanks to kirklees my bloody rent (what has been fixed). BUT this year i’m gonna do it..im signing up next week when liam is back at school .
i forgot to tell you sexy people about last week :O .
1st i got a letter from housing. i thought oh my rent might be going up to £70 a week because right now i’m paying £68 thanks to my ex job not telling the tax office. good news my rent has gone down to £45 a week. i have to admit i had happy tears when i saw that letter.
2nd my housing officer rang me up to say that the neighbor rang him up. i thought oh what he complaining about. the guy admitted to everything and tried to blame stuff on my son. the officer told the guy to stop . the best part is the guy who is living in that flat should not even be there. he told housing that his mum is on holiday (WHAT 3month one).
3rd liam’s ADHD paper work has come to school. been told it can take up to 2years to get stuff sorted but i’m happy we got the paper work.
- first meeting was with the school nurse and headmaster. to me the meeting was more about them talking to each other and me being added into when needed. i had some good news there gonna be trying to sign liam backup to speech. but i did have very odd chat. the headteacher asked me if liam watches horror stuff. i said no he plays a game called roblox and there games on it but nothing bad (i would not let him play if they was bad)…well after a long chat i found out liam had been talking about the game but the thought i was letting liam watch horror :O ( told liam now he is NOT ALLOWED to play scary games on roblox). after this i asked stuff but i felt like i was being judged and odd.
2. 2nd meeting was alot better and i felt alot more had been said and done. it was with the school psychologist. looks like liam could be getting more help and maybe his assessment pushed. he gave me better advice about liam poop probs and bedtime probs at home. oh and there gonna be a assessment on safety at school because liam has been coming home hurt (bumps and cuts).
thankyou for all the birthday message’s. i got my 4th card at 10pm and yesterday other family members remembered to send a bloody message.
anyway i had some good news. i had a phone call to tell me that there gonna be testing my son for ADHD BUT they don’t no if he has it 0-0 and it might be something else. but i’m just happy that the doctor got them to push it seeing that school keep saying they will.
i kind of had a crappy morning. i went to work like normal and ARRRRRRRRRRRRRRR. a staff member was in a mood with me because i’m off next week and i had someone trying very hard to make me feel like i’m a failure (all before 7am). i was so happy to get home and yell into a pillow.
anyway i’m off to watch my boy play minecraft…..