i got to admit that i’m very happy that i did this holiday random blog thing. i kind of went off blogging for abit but that was not because i was bored it was mostly because of people stalking.
today has just been lazy. liam is not on school holiday so he has spent most of the day on the bloody xbox. tomorrow he is going on a easter egg hurt with his nan and grandad so that gives me time to get the flat sorted out and do some washing.
i’m back to work on monday and i have to admit i’m not looking forward to it. don’t get me wrong i love my job and the people i work with but i just can’t deal with the building i’m working in. its got to a point that i have had to join a working union…
its late and i need to go to sleep but my mind is saying hell no. i’m getting so sick of feeling like this and i need it to stop. last night i had to make myself sleep and i must of dropped off at 10pm but woke up at 1am and went to sleep at 3am.
also today i got a text from the NHS saying liam has a appointment tomorrow at 10:30am but it was the first time i have been told about it so i’m gonna have to ring them tomorrow and rebook it or i will have school on my butt because i have not told them but how i’m i post to tell them if i didn’t even sodding knew lol.
whoop i can now tell you people a little bit about what has been going on. after the fun and games with school i had to have a behaviour nurse come round to my house. after a long chat she has turned around and said i do not have to see her again but like i said i bet she be back soon because everytime something goes wrong at school THEY ALWAYS BLAME HOME. i’m also post to be going onto a course about behaviour thanks to school.
it was that time of the month when i go into school and have a meeting with the headmaster and school nurse. there is stuff i can’t say on the blog what is going on but liam has ALOT of probs.
but i will say this that liam has started to lie to people to a point i had a phone call last week because he told someone at school that i got hit by a car (don’t worry i haven’t) and that he is going to friends houses to watch horror films and he is not and he won’t stop talking about horror stuff ( he has never watched a horror film). in my last meeting he told school he learned about the horror from roblox because used to play a game called the scary elevator but it was not a scary game and no-one even says there names on it so i do not understand how he learned the names and he told school that he has seen Saw ( he bloody has not) …so after that meeting i banned him from playing the scary elevator because of the horror movie thing but he was still going around telling people about it so i banned him from roblox but even when banned he has now going around saying hes going to friends houses.
if anyone can give me help how to stop this please help. i have banned him from xbox because of this but people are saying that is kind of wrong..
https://www.roblox.com/games/7783741/IT-The-Scary-Elevator roblox is for children 7+ … liam is never playing this game again
from my last blog i told you sexy people about how my son had a bad day…well it has been a crazy bloody week. monday liam had a bad day (read last blog).
on wednesday i got a phone call saying liam has been fighting and is not listening (they lost control). when i went to pick him up the only thing school could do was say he was sleepy and he is not going to bed right. well i turned around and said he goes to bed at 7pm and right to sleep and was up at 7am. they soon changed it to oh it must be his diet (o_0).
got a phone call yesterday at 11am to be told liam has fallen over amd hurt his lip.
i went to pick liam up from school yesterday. soon as i went to the classroom i could see liam messing about. i just knew then that its gonna be bad news. soon as the doors open i got called into the classroom. liam was just laying on the floor but soon as he saw me he sat down. i had children coming up to me and telling me he had been hitting children. even a mother was having ago at the teacher because her child had been hit but there was no mark on the child. i sat down and had a chat with the teacher to find out liam had NO one to one and he would not listen to her. i was not happy with liam but i’m not also happy with the school because he should’ve had one to one.
what do they want me to do? i can see it ending up with me going to school and watching him.
- first meeting was with the school nurse and headmaster. to me the meeting was more about them talking to each other and me being added into when needed. i had some good news there gonna be trying to sign liam backup to speech. but i did have very odd chat. the headteacher asked me if liam watches horror stuff. i said no he plays a game called roblox and there games on it but nothing bad (i would not let him play if they was bad)…well after a long chat i found out liam had been talking about the game but the thought i was letting liam watch horror :O ( told liam now he is NOT ALLOWED to play scary games on roblox). after this i asked stuff but i felt like i was being judged and odd.
2. 2nd meeting was alot better and i felt alot more had been said and done. it was with the school psychologist. looks like liam could be getting more help and maybe his assessment pushed. he gave me better advice about liam poop probs and bedtime probs at home. oh and there gonna be a assessment on safety at school because liam has been coming home hurt (bumps and cuts).